I live and work by a total of four different high schools. This means that just by going about my daily routine, I bump into a lot of teenage girls. And as much as they chatter, giggle and behave just like me and my group of friends did when we were at school, two main differences stand out.
The first being that they are glued to their mobile phones (mobiles had Snake and were calls only when I first got one back in the dark ages, so no You Tube gurus for me.) The second being that their make up looks absolutely amazing although they tend to look identical (same eyebrows, cheeks and lips) but nonetheless, they look good. Seeing them reminds me of all of the beauty errors that I made as a teenager.
I was a teenager in the 90s. When my mum finally relented and let me wear make up, it was all about thin eyebrows, badly coloured foundation, hair mascara and Impulse O2. I thought I looked and smelt sophisticated! Nowadays, girls are contoured to perfection with perfectly groomed brows and Kylie Jenner lip kits. A lot has changed.
Seeing the teenage girls of today makes me think of the numerous beauty errors that I made all those years ago! Looking back at pictures, I now think that I looked awful but I reassure myself with the fact that we all did. It was the 90s. I should be grateful I’m not a touch older and a teen in the 80s. I shudder to think what I would’ve looked like…
My 8 Beauty mistakes
It sounds disgusting now, but I did this. I ignored my mum’s advice and did this. And now I have the acne scars to show for it. Mums are always right.
Wearing the wrong foundation
In my defence, as a mixed race woman it was not easy to find a colour match where I grew up. But I’m not sure how much I actually tried. I wore what I could find and afford. Collection 2000 Natural Beige was my holy grail. My foundation was often the strangest colour and almost never matched my neck. Or the wrong type for my skin type and just looked horrendous. I’m much choosier now and never wear foundation with added SPF if I know I’m going to be photographed. I have too many photos from my early twenties of me looking like a ghost to let that happen again.
Forgetting to cleanse and moisturise
Now, I’ve always bought expensive cleanser, toner and moisturiser. I was the 16 year old asking for Clinique and Liz Earle at Christmas. Whether I used the right products for my skin remains to be seen. Pricier doesn’t always mean better. And even La Mer skincare will do nothing for your skin if it sits on your bathroom side untouched. Choose the right products. Establish a good routine.
Over plucking Eyebrows
There were no such things as You Tube tutorials to show us the way forward. And my mum’s generation were the ones who shaved their eyebrows completely off in order to draw them back on. Why??? So lacking in guidance, I plucked and plucked and plucked. It has taken me years of patience and determination to grow them back to a more natural and normal shape. The moral of the story. Don’t over pluck. Thin eyebrows suit nobody.
A real bug bear of my Mum’s. I often don’t even realise I’m doing it. It’s a comfort thing. It’s something I do when I’m anxious. I hate the appearance of bitten down nails so have spent a small fortune over the years on acrylics and Shellac. If only I had never started, I could probably purchase a rather nice car with the money I’ve spent on my nails over the years.
Not embracing colour
For years I was a neutral eye and a nude lipstick kind of girl. It’s only the last year or so that I have realised that colour suits me. I should have experimented more before the fine lines started to appear and made me a little more apprehensive about shimmery eyeshadow.
Wearing heavy eyeliner
Now, I can’t lie, I love black eyeliner. Anything from a thin line for work to a full on Amy Winehouse style flick for the evening but what I never do anymore is draw a thick line underneath my eyes. It made me look older than I was and never stayed where it was anyway ensuring that I looked like a panda in school uniform by 3pm.
Listen to other people’s opinions
As a beauty blogger, this is a bit of a weird thing for me to say but I used to listen to other people’s opinions on make up and take them as gospel. It is good to get advice about make up. I love reading beauty magazines and blogs but, I also like to experiment and find out for myself. What works for others might not work for me and the other way around (although I do love it when a friend loves my recommendations.) Make up is supposed to be fun. Enjoy it.
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